We have rules, and they are the same as the Facebook group. Without rules, we have nothing.
We invite reasonable suggestions as to how we may improve, we are feeling our way after twenty years in the wilderness and many years of using Facebook which is so simple to use, but difficult to operate given the restrictions of "community standards". I get that "community standards" are necessary, some people have barely escaped the animal phase, but let's be reasonable.
Talk to folks as you would face to face, not as if you are in a war
Correct. We are almost unrestricted here as long as content isn't actually illegal but we do need some limitations. As we've seen in the Facebook group, there are some mental patients around.